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Sarah SutherlandSarah( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise, You are, and always will be more than just a mother-in- law to me. You are a woman who I admire and respect. Your strength, loyalty and high spirits will be remembered by myself and amongst many others. The memories we shared will be with me forever; listening to Tarynn?s heart beat for the first time, our crazy, wet trip to Chicago, holidays, and movie nights. You are a true a true representation of what it is like to be a noble mother, wife, grandmother, sister, daughter, and friend. Love Always, Sarah
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Lauren WesterfieldLauren( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
To the Sutherland Family in your time of sadness, I wish your family strength, resilience and happiness for the future. You will remain in my prayers. God bless.
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frank and renee robinsonfrank and renee robinson( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
What an honor to have known Denise for just a short time. Bruce, the love we saw in Denise's eyes for you was so very special. She will be truely missed. Love, Frank and Renee Robinson
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Jim & Gloria Taylor( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We just want you all to know we are praying for all of you and will continue to do so. Our hearts go out to all of you at this sad time.
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Fran Neal( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
MISSING DENISE;HAPPY TIMES WITH TEAMMATES ON THE TENNIS COURT,ALWAYS A HAPPY SMILE AND FRIENDLY GREETING. HER COURAGE AND POSITIVE ATTITUDE THROUGHOUT HER LIFE. SOMEONE I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER AND ADMIRE. WITH LOVE, FRAN NEAL
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DR. MICHAEL & KIRSTEN COUGHLINKIRSTEN AND MIKE( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU..
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TOM & MARY LEEPERMonica( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise, I have many vague memories, and they all remind me of how strong and dedicated a mother you were. The compassion your family and friends have for you can only emphasize the kind of person you have been and the way you've touched people's lives. The last time I saw you, I think way back in 2003, I saw a woman who was not broken down by her sickness, but continued to shine. You're smile and warmth are in no doubt my lasting impressions of you, and the love i was so fortunate to witness and hear of between you and Bruce is inspiring beyond words. Sleep well and know that you will always be missed and always remain an inspiration.
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Chay NanceChay( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I only met her a few times but what i gathered from those couple of visits is that she loved her family and did anything for them. Denise was a very sweet women that had a big heart. I'm sorry for your lose.
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earl & dianne smith( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
dearest mike & julie and family earl & I are so very sorry to read about the passing of your daughter. It pains us to know you have lost your beloved Denise. please accept our deepest condolences and sympathy at this time. our prayers are with you and your family. earl & dianne
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Bub and Doreen ComptonDoreen( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I have so many memories of Denise. My son Dustin and Cliff grew up together in the Lakeshore neighborhood.Boy was it a wild neighborhood with the Cope boy's the Erracalde boy's, Dustin and Cliff. We always knew they were hanging out at one of the houses.I knew all their parent's phone numbers by heart.To this day I don't know if those boy's know how connected we were as parent's trying to keep track of there every move. The all turned out to be great boys.Denise, you and Bruce should be so proud of Cliff and the young man he has become. He comes by and visits us when he is in town with his sweet baby girl.Cliff is a true example of great parent's that were always there for him.
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Dan and Elise WoodsDan and Elise Woods( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. We will always remember the fun times together at superbowl parties. There is so little we can say, but know that we care and share your grief with you. God bless you and your family. Dan and Elise
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Erin CoughlinErin( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
To Denise, I cannot put into words how much you will be missed, but I can tell you one thing, you leave behind the strongest woman I have ever met, your daughther Shawna. She has shown and taught me more in her young 24 years of life, and I know that you and Bruce are so proud of her. I will be by her side for life, and I know you will never need to worry about her. Because of you and Bruce, your guidance, your unendding love and support, and your love for eachother, Shawna has grown up to be an independent, intelligent, gorgeous person. I thank God everyday that Shawna, you and your family are in my life. I know you will be watching down on all of us, and we love you so much. Sincerely, Erin Coughlin
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Carla Dodge( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Denise, You were always full of the joy of life, and when this horrible illness struck afew years ago, you had tremendous courage and were a real fighter. I will always remember your enthusiam in all that you did, and your great love for your family who were equally devoted to you. I will always remember your adventurous spirit and that you took on skydiving, motorcycle riding and other adventures with excitement and determination to do your best and enjoy it to the max! I will always remember your beautiful smile and will see you in your children and grandchildren as time passes on. My prayers and love to Bruce, Shawna, Cliff, Sarah, Tarwyn, Mike and Julie. Denise, may your spirit look out with joy at your family and may you be together with other loved family members that have preceeded us. Love, Carla
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Lora WisdomLora Wisdom( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We have lost a wonderful person , very sorry for your loss. God Bless, Lora
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Philip LienauPhilip( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Bruce, Denise, Shawna and Cliff, I remember your house in Stockton and late nights of Intelevision. I remember being late on my drive from Reno to UOP for your wedding, waiting outside until the ceremony ended so I wouldn't interupt. I remember how beautiful Denise looked when you two finally emerged from the Chapel. I remember when Shawna was born. I remember when little Cliffy was born. I remember nighttime "Marco-Polo" in the pool. I remember Denise's Keenly competitive spirt. I remember the wonderful Thanksgiving dinners with the "looking forward to all year" ravioli. I remember when the kids started playing tennis and how devoted Denise was. I remember what a fun and amazingly energetic person Denise was. I wish I remembered the name of the Mexican restaurant we used to go to. I remember what an incredible Wife, Mother and Daughter Denise was. Gosh, these are but a few of the many, many memories, some of the best memories of my life, and I will treasure them always. I am so very glad that I had the privilege to know Denise Sutherland, and know, truly know, that I am the better for it. Thank you Denise. Thank you Bruce, Shawna, Cliff, Mike and Julie. With Most Sincere Respect & Condolences, Philip
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Mike George FamilyMike George( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Bruce & Family, We are sincerely symathetic for your loss of such an extremely courageous wife and mother. Please accept our heart felt sympathy, and may God bless Denise and your family in this time of rememberance. Sincere condolences, Mike George and family
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Celeste Eisenberg( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise, I love you with all my heart. You had a passion for life that I cherish about you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember you smiling, because you always were. Phyllis and Cliff have you in their arms right now...
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John Davis( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I never knew Denise, but I am sure she carried the same grace, dignity, and all around general charm as her daughter. For that she will always be remembered and in my prayers.
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Jane MoonJane( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise will always be a huge part of my childhood memories. She was always so sweet, caring, considerate, and hospitable. She will be greatly missed!
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Letha PinnellLetha( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
The very short and wonderful years that I was blessed to know and play tennis with Denise will leave and everlasting impression with me. Her smile is contagious and her spirit is funfilled!! I have missed her for some time now, and I hope for some peace for her family who was very lucky to have her the short time they did.
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Bob & Shirley HindmarshBob & Shirley Hindmarsh( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We morn Denise's early departure from earth but happy she is now in God's and her heaven. We morn with Mike and Julie Aloi, our friends and neighbor. God bless both of them during their grief for their beloved daughter. Bob & Shirley
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Dan Cooper( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
To sincerely express our sympathy to Mike and Julie and family in the loss of Denise. Our prayers are with you at this sad time in your life. Thinking of you every day. Loretta & Les
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Ajay and Joy Karan( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise, although we didn't really get to know you very long, the love that you shared with our daughter holds strong. You were so excited to be a grandmother to Tarynn, you came to our home when Tarynn came home from the hospital, Bruce held her up to you and you looked at her with such love. Watching Tarynn with you was so wonderful, she loves you so much and we will always remind her of you. We wish that we could have known you when you were so active, mabey we could have learned something from you. But we did learn that the love of a husband and wife is the strongest love there is. Watching you with Bruce was so beautiful. We will remember the lesson of that love forever.
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Nancy Shock( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
A true fighter on and off the court is the only way I can describe Denise. Never give up until the last point. It appears that the on-court Denise that I first met, was the real Denise. Shake it off and keep up the fight. What fun we had playing tennis. I will never forget the determinatiion in her face and it was still there after she became ill. The beam of pride was also glowing when she talked about her family and looked into her husband's face. That never changed with her illness. I am a better person for knowing Denise and watching the example she set as she battled her disease. Thank you Denise, for raising the bar for all of us and making us realize the value of each day and each chance we have to live so lovingly. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you find comfort in your memories.
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Tara AgansTara Agans & Family( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Bruce & Family, Mike & Julie, The devotion & love for Denise is amazing! The dedication Bruce had for Denise is truely honorable. I only met Denise a few times but heard allot of wonderful things about her from several people. She has left such a inspiring legecy behind for so many who looked up to her. May God give you all the stength needed at this time. You are all in my prayers. Sincere Respects
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Chino and Debi Chiene( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Here's what we loved about Denise: Her zest for life Her beautiful smile and contagious laugh Her dedication to her family Her special relationship with her husband Her cooking and of course, her passion for tennis! We were all lucky to have had her in our lives, even though that time was much too short. God bless each one of you! We are terribly sorry that we cannot attend the service today but please know that you are in our hearts, especially today.
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Loretta & Lester Winegar( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
As one of Shawna's best friends I feel I have known Denise for much longer than I actually did. I know little things like she always served a balanced dinner and didn't allow too much junk food. I know she didn't want to see others abused or bullied, and was willing to stand up for them when no one else would. I know she was an extremely caring and supportive mother and wife with a great sense of humor. I'm so thankful that Denise provided so much for her family, and have made them who they are today. Shawna has learned from example and is caring, giving, and always makes balanced dinners! The Sutherland's always make their house feel like home, and I will greatly miss hanging out and drinking wine with all the girls. All my love and support goes out to Denise's family and friends.
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Valerie Atler-Nunes( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise: I am proud to have been a part of your life. We met in junior high and shared many crushes together. I was so privileged to be the maid of honor at your marriage to Bruce. My heart is truly heavy with sorrow at your departure from us, but I know that you are smiling that beautiful smile upon us all from Heaven. I will always carry the beautiful memories of our silly times together in my heart. My love and sympathy to your family.
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CASSIE (SLOAN) GAYTAN( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
SHAWNA, IT HAS BEEN A REALLY LONG TIME AND IT JUST SEEMS UNFAIR TO LEARN OF THINGS IN YOUR LIFE THIS WAY. I AM VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER, SHE WAS A WONDERFUL WOMAN. AFTER 15 YEARS SHE SAW ME AND RIGHT AWAY KNEW WHO I WAS AND MADE IT A POINT TO TALK TO ME, NOT MANY PEOPLE WOULD DO THAT BUT SHE IS SOMETHING SPECIAL, WHOSE MEMORY YOU MUST HOLD ONTO FOREVER. STAY STRONG AND REMEMBER THAT SHE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU. WITH MUCH LOVE, CASSIE (SLOAN) GAYTAN
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Roger & Sharon Gibbs( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
You should feel so proud of your family and the legacy that you left behind. Shawna is an accomplished, fun young woman, loyal to her friends and such a delight to be with! I am so glad that Lauren has the opportunity to be friends with Shawna. I remember "ditching" the girls' parents' sorority events to hang out. We really enjoyed the time we had visiting with you two. Our love and prayers to you all. Roger & Sharon
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Bret Schmidt( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Shawna, my thoughts are with you and your family...I'll always remember your mom as the fun-loving totally cool mom who let me come over and hang out at your house all the time in high school
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Mr. & Mrs. Frank MarrelloChristine Marrello( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I remember that Denise was the cousin I played with the most during family reunions. I remember her hanging upside down on the monkey bars with her hair in braids, one lock of her bangs hanging down into her eyes, wearing her big glasses, that which would sometimes fall down her nose. Of course, as this was going on, she was smiiling her biggest, warmest smile. I remember playing hide and go seek with Denise, and laughing with her, as we acted like a couple of tomboys around Grandpa Calcagno's big ranch--that was full of hidden adventures. She was always a nice person, and as she grew older, she lost her glasses, as well as her awkward, although endearing shyness, and suddenly--she became a outwardly beautiful and articulate woman. She emerged the butterfly. Always vibrant and loving, Denise never seemed to ever be negative around anyone, and she always listened to you, as she gazed at you--with a warmth, and a secret glint in her eyes. It was as if she could see right down into your soul. Denise always wore her heart on her sleeve, and she loved her husband Bruce dearly, as he loved her. She was never a rude or fake person, which is what I loved the most about her. Denise had a sense of humor, as she and her husband would crack jokes, and have a sort of unspoken language all of their own. That was fun to watch! She was always honest and kind, and she always tried to help people in need. She was always a down-to-earth and realistic person who loved life, and lived it to the fullest. I have never met a person who loved her husband and kids more. She was always taking her kids to sporting events, and she was the ultimate mother, who gave of herself, never asking for anthing in return. "Unselfishness" was Denise's true name. I remember she was my bridesmaid at my wedding, and she enjoyed herself fully, toasting and laughing to the utmost. We had fun that day, let me tell you! Also, I enjoyed all the family get togethers she gave, when Frank and I attended and ate her really good food! I will miss Denise sorely. She didn't deserve what happened to her, and it pained me to know what she was going through. She was always in my thoughts and prayers, and I felt inspired by her courage. I know she is in Heaven, and she has gotten back that beautiful smile she lost because of her illness. She is also running and dancing again! I can only hope that I will be considered a good enough person to meet Denise up there in Heaven. There is a saying that says: only the good die young, and I believe that Denise was certainly an angel incarnate--living right her on Earth. I do hope that she is now happy and at peace up there with our Heavenly father. Thank you Denise, for being you!
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Dani EscalanteDani( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Denise, now that you are in a better place free of any pains, know that you will never be forgotten and will always be loved. With Love and Condolences, Dani
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Rick MarksRick Marks( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Shawna-I just want to let you know how much I liked you mother and what a great "tennis mom" she was. I really appreciated how she came to every match and how positive she was to our entire team. She was really great to have around while you were on our team. Shawna, I can't even come close to imagining what you and your family have gone through. I was really touched by the caregiving article in the Lodi News Sentinel and what an amazing job you dad Bruce has been doing. My mom also died way too young and as hard as it is to do, try to remember the great family times you had. Debbie and I pray that God will give you strength and peace during this difficult time for you and your family. We love you guys. Rick and Debbie Marks.
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Chad KaszerChad( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Denise, the love and devotion you showed to your family was amazing. Your benevolent nature inspired everyone around you to be a better person, and your strong, loving heart allowed everyone to share in your joys. Lucky for us, it always seemed to slip past your teeth in your brilliant smile. And lucky for me that you have passed on these wonderful qualities to your daughter, of whom I am the direct recipient of your accomplishments as a mother. Everything I love about her is everything I love in you, and thank you for welcoming me, with open arms, into your home and life. I am truly grateful for the time that I was able to spend with you, and for you introducing me to your indelible spirit. Sleep well, you will truly be missed. Love, Chad
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Sara CardineSara Cardine( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I had the great fortune to meet Bruce and Denise for a story I was working on for the Lodi News-Sentinel. Sitting down with them and talking/joking was such a wonderful time. I remember Denise talking about how much she loved holding her granddaughter Tarryn and about how she liked the feel of the dogs jumping up on her and licking her face. She sure is one unforgettable person. My very best wishes go to Bruce, Mike and Denise, and the kids.
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John DrysdaleUOP( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Although I am many miles away, my heart, thoughts and prayers have been and continue to be with all of you. The Denise I knew was always happy, full of energy and a positive force in the family. Her spirit will always be there and never diminish.
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Coleman ShollTokay High School( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Footprints in the Sand by Mary Stevenson One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, You said that once I decided to follow you, You'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me." The Lord replied, "My son, My precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I Carried You." Please know that my family and I are praying for you and your family, Shawna. I remember all the times your Mom would come to our tennis matches and really root you on! She loved to watch you play and everyone could see how very proud she was of you. Her love for you will never end. With Deepest Regards, Nicole Andrino
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Erik DiazErik( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Everybody who knew Denise would agree that she was one of the most amazing woman ever. She was there for me time and time again, at times that I needed her very much during my younger days, and I viewed her as my second mother. She made a huge impact on me with the love that she showed, and I will never forget the memories that I have. My prayers are with you and your family. You will be dearly missed.
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Rick Leeper( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Bruce and family: We are so very sorry for your loss. We didn't know Denise well, but we can certainly remember her sense of humor and laughing spirit. You are all in our thoughts.
