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Mary Ann & Jim Jacobson( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth and girls, Please know we are saying a prayer for Harvey and your family. We believe he is at peace. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as all of your wonderful memories are rekindled. Mary Ann & Jim Jacobson
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Duane and Kathy SchulzDuane & Kathy SchulzDuane &( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Ruth, Kim and Kristy, Our love and prayers are with all of you. Harvey was a such wonderful man. He was a devoted husband and father. He had an outstanding personality and he will be missed by everyone who knew him. May all of your memories help you during this difficult time. With love, Duane & Kathy
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Thomas & Shawnna BurlingtonThomas & Shawnna Burlin( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We met Harvey through F&M Bank. He was always happy to help with whatever we needed. What we will remember the most about Harvey is his great smile! He always had a smile on his face and a great attitude! We will sure miss him and feel we were blessed to know him!
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Ed & Beverly KermgardEd & Bev( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth and Family, Ed & I were so sorry and surprised to hear of Harvey's passing. We find it hard to express our sorrow. Words are not adequate at a time like this. Please accept our prayers, thoughts and sympathy. Love, Ed & Bev
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deloris pallesen( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
he always had a smile on his face and was always happy.
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Megan FosterMegan Foster( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kim, Kristi: I am so very sorry for your loss. I will never forget the time I spent with all of you and how much Harv enjoyed life. I especially won't forget him wacking me with a broom stick whenever Kim and I caused trouble! He will be greatly missed and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Jack & Kathy MerrillJack & Kathy Merrill( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We've know Harvey for over 20 years and over the last six years we became good friends. Along with everyone, we will miss him
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Rebecca PearsonF&M Bank( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I only had dealings with Harvey a few times, but he made a lasting impression. He was a very nice man.
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Morris and Linda Balfour( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Harvey was a very friendly person and always had a smile and warm handshake ready. We know he will be missed by many people in this town, including us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Ruth, Kim, Kristi, and your families.
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Alan & Ellen AshbaughAlan & Ellen( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
In 1975, Alan was diagnosed with Hodg-kins Disease. At age 23, I was totally overwhelmed at the prospect of helping my husband through his treatment and the financial burdens connected with his illness. The day we returned from Stanford, I walked into F & Bank. Harvey saw me and came literally running through the lobby to hug me. He told me not to worry about our car payment because he had already taken care of filing for the credit dis-ability payment. He had heard of Alan's illness at church and taken care of everything on Monday. He made a difference in our life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ruth, Kymberly and Kristi.
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Chuck & Jeri SpringerChuck & Jeri( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruthie & family: Please accept our condolences. We will remember Harvey as an energetic happy person, always willing to help someone. May God bless and comfort you and your family during this time and the days ahead.
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LENORE AND LARRY NIES( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
HARVEY WAS THE KIND OF MAN THAT ALL COULD AND DID ADMIRE..HE TREATED EVERYONE WITH RESPECT AND KINDNESS..HIS HUMOR EVER PRESENT...HE NEVER SEEMED TO FORGET A NAME.. HE WILL TRUELY BE MISSED. OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH RUTH AND THE GIRLS, HE WILL ALWAYS BE PRESENT TO WATCH OVER YOU. HE IS ONE OF THE BEST.... LENORE AND LARRY NIES
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Jo Ann and Jerry ZanettiJ. Zanetti( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harvey: You've always been a very, very special individual which we'll never forget. Your smiling face, firm handshake, and ability to make everyone feel like you've been friends for a hundred years will be sorely missed. Thank You for always being a friend, and above all for just being You. We'll miss you. Jerry & Jo Ann Zanetti
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Donna (Mills) Shaw( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harvey was responsible for helping me to get my job at F&M Bank. He was my dad's loan officer and my dad thought the world of him. When a job came up in Master Card Harvey put in a reference for me based on my dad's word. I was able to work with Harvey over the next 13 years, at times as his loan secretary. He was a wonderful individual and will be missed my many. Ruth, we share your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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Alton NitschkeAlton Nitschke( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harvey, may god take you into his arms. Unfortunately, Your passing reminded me of some of the fun times you and I had in high school. May your family be blessed in all that they do.
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Mike & Sandie Pyle( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Ruth My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, at this difficult time. I did not know Harvey, but have always heard what a very nice man he was. My deepest Sympathy Monika
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dave and claudia( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We will always remember Harvey for his smile and really "good grip" hand shake. Harvey also over the years took care of all our banking needs, both personal and business. He could be busy at his desk with a customer, but would acknowledge us with a wave, smile or nod. Our sympathy to all the family.
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Cliff & Kasia HallCliff & Kasia( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kim & Kristi, we are very sorry for your loss, I dont have the words to express the loss we feel . It was a true pleasure to have known Harvey , and enjoyed his rare and amaizing personality
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Amber Hopf( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I'll never forget the sense of humor your family has and the love... stay strong and remember all the amazing, funny times you had with your true love, Ruth and your amazingly warm-hearted dad, Kim and Kristi. Miss you and love you~
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Sue & Doug SchnaidtThe Schnaidt Family( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We feel such a tremendous sadness for the loss of Harvey. However, the memories of him will always put a smile on our faces. He so enjoyed his family and friends. We all felt his love and will miss him dearly. We pray for you, Ruthie, and for the girls. May you find peace and comfort knowing that he is in a better place now. Love to you all, Doug, Sue, Lindsay, and John
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REGINA IBARRAF & M BANK( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I MET HARVEY IN 1999 AT F & M'S VINEYARD OFFICE, JUST STARTING AS A NEW EMPLOYEE WITH F & M BANK. HARVEY ALWAYS WORE A SMILE TO WORK AND NEVER FORGOT TO SAY HI TO ANY ONE. EVEN LITTLE OL ME. AND AT THAT HE ALWAYS REMEMBERD MY NAME. I DIDN'T KNOW HARVEY VERY WELL, BUT AS YOU CAN SEE HE MADE A GREAT IMPACT & IMPRESSION ON EVERYONE HE MET. MY SYMPATHY TO THE KESSEL FAMILY.
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Sheri & Darrell DidrecksonSheri & Darrell( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth and family, our prayers and thoughts have been with you for sometime now and will continue...I am personally so thankful that I had the blessing to live across the street from you and Harvey growing up. Taking care of Pee Wee and babysitting your two girls are very good memories. Harvey, you know that I always told you when you were alive what an awesome person you were. I will miss your smile, joking around and the waves from you in the bank. Ruth, may God grant you peace that can only come through Jesus and keep you in His loving care. All our love, Sheri & Darrell
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Wanda MurphyWandaWanda( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
My deepest sympathy to Ruth and your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in the loss of your beloved Harv.
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Ted KatzakianTed( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I will miss Harvey's smile and handshake when going into the bank. He was genuinly a fine individual, banker, father and an asset to the community. We need more people like him to make this a better place to live.....God Bless...Ted
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Gary MarcianoGary Marciano( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
May God comfort you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Chris SandovalChris Sandoval( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
The Kessel's were an important part of my past, and have blessed me with many great memories. You guy's always had an open door and welcomed me, along with many others to enjoy bonding in laughter and to experience joy that I cherish to this day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, Ruth, Kristi and Kym.
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Jerry/Ruthi Heminger( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Dear Ruth, Ruthi and I were so saddened when we heard of Harv's passing. To anyone who knew him, he was a very special person and will be remembered, fondly, by all of us. Please accept our kind thoughts and prayers..........Jerry
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Cindi CamporaCindi Campora( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kim & Kristi - I know what your family is going through right now losing someone who is so special and important to you. Harvey was one of the nicest men I've ever met. He was always so happy and cheerful. I believe that came from a happy home life. Even though it's been 10 years since we lost Bruce, he is always with us. We still turn to him for important decisions, and somehow God seems to communicate a response back to us from him. Harvey will always be there for you, too, if you just believe. His strength will always be in your hearts. God bless all of you now and always.
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Dan HauckDan Hauck( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kristi and Kim, I am sorry for your loss. It has been over 10 years but I will forever remember the time Harv & Ruth, along with Amy and Stu were trapsing around downtown Rapid City and were looking for a place to sit down. Harv and Stu found us one alright. We happened upon a wedding reception and because of Harv & Stu friendliness and sense of humor the wedding couple invited us right in like we had known them or years. It is one of my fondest memories. Thanks Harv, Dan
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Wayne FischerWayne Fischer( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Sorry to hear of the passing of brother Harv. Glen & Cynthia. It seems just a short time since I visited with Harv. at Ruth's moms funeral here in Aberdeen. I have fond memories of your mom and dad and your entire family. May God be very close to all of you during this difficult time. Wayne Fischer, Class of '55, Ashley High School.
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Linda McEnerney( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I didn't really know Mr. Kessel, but will miss his smile and friendly greetings in the bank, around downtown, and out on walks in the neighborhood. Lodi has lost one of its treasures.
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Kathy Macbeth( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I will miss Harvey's big smile, warm hugs and endearing sense of humor. I will hold his memory close to my heart.
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Sue WilliamsSue( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kristie, Kim, also Glenn and Cynthia: Never have I met such a person who touched so many lives with his love and kindness, as did Harvey. I feel truly blessed to have worked for him and blessed to have had his friendship, I will miss him deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with you...
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Kelley Luiz( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
To The Debono Family, My heart and prayers go out to all of you. I am blessed to have been a friend of George. George's love of life will forever be remembered. He had a personality which enabled him to make everyone feel special & an endearing sense of humor. I will miss him, but am comforted in knowing he was devoted and faithful to Christ. I can see the sparkle in his eyes and big smile on his face whenever his family was mentioned. He loved you all so much.
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Gerri BourtayreGerri & Elwood Bourtayre( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
It is hard to believe that we will not see Harvey's smile or hear him laugh again. It is sobering that he left us too soon and so quickly after being diagnosed with Leukemia. We will cherish our memories of Harvey and promise to do our part to make sure his memory lives on through us for our granddaughter Kamryn. Ruth, Kim and Kristi, we offer our love and support to you at this time of great sorrow.
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DOUG AND CHRIS WIEDDoug and Chris Wied( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Our deepest sympathy to the family. Harvey was truly one of the "good guys" of the world. He will be greatly missed. We are sorry we will not be in town to attend the services but you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Mike Locke( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I will always remember Harveys smile and his devotion to community projects. Lodi is truely a better place because of Harveys efforts.We will see Harvey again when we to cross that bridge to the other side. God Bless Mike Locke
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Lisa MaplesLisa Maples( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
The Gift, Harvey Kessel Freely Gave Away There is a gift that's sure to please, More precious than pure gold. A gift that's meant for everyone From the young to the old. It is a very common gift That's impossible to hide, And, oh, so very popular- It's easily found worldwide. It is a very fragile gift That should be nourished with great care, And although it is quite common, It can also be quite rare. Everyone at times has had it; People enjoy it everyday, But it seems to have more value when it is freely given away. Even though this gift is priceless, It's no good to us unless We share this gift with others- This great gift is happiness. I had the chance to meet this great man, who was the kindest happiest spirit while working at F & M Bank. May I add Where Banking is Easy if Harvey was the person assisting the customer. In working at F & M Bank , at a time, I had a phone conversation with Harvey or Kathy Sayler on a daily basis for completion of a daily job duty. I'll always cherish those phone conversations. On occasion, Harvey would come to the Lodi Main Office and it was always great to see him. I would say, "Hi Haaarv" and he would say, "Hiiiiii, how yah doing", with a great big smile and his genuine personality. Harvey would brighten up any gloomy day. When I think of Harvey Kessel, what comes to mind is kind, happy, real, cheerful, joyous, funny, friendly and a true human being with the biggest heart ever. I know if he touched my life in a way that will never be forgotten, so many other lives were touched in the very same way. All the F & M functions will be a lasting happy memory. Then, when Ruth joined F & M again, I met the most beautiful and sweetest woman ever. I thought to myself what a blessing these two wonderful people god has blessed as one. In the beginning, I was so saddened to hear about Harvey's illness. Then, I ran into a former Co-Worker and was told it wasn't going to be long. I was saddened even more. I lost my Father 9 days short of his 63rd Birthday and I miss him every day. I thought, Lord, how can you take him at such a young age. Then, I found peace knowing he would not suffer anymore and he was in a better place. The Lord knows when we need to be taken and I will forever live with happy memories of my Father as I will with Harvey Kessel. I will look forward to seeing Harvey Kessel again one day.... YOUR GENUINE, UNIQUE PERSONALITY LEGACY WILL FOREVER LIVE ON HARVEY KESSEL....... Living Love/A Prayer for the Kessel Family His love shall ever light your path- Just know his hand is there To guard you and your soul to keep And lift you from despair. Trust! Turn to Him before you seek Another source of aid; His Holy Spirit is your guide, So do not be dismayed. His angels always linger near And friends are here to pray, He does provide the love and care To meet your needs each day. Accept and trust His power divine, In pleasure and in pain; With faith look up and know that He will use it for your gain. As you submit your will to His, No trial can erase The witness of the love you live Through his amazing grace!
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Dave and Claudia CareyDave and Claudia( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harv was an incrediblefather,and husband. He always had a wonderful smile on his face whenever he greeted you. His compassion and apathy for others was just one of the many gifts he gave us. Ruth, our love and sincere sympathy are with you and the girls May God keep you in his care. Love, Claudia and Dave
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Lisa Maples( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Kessel Family--So very sorry to hear of Harvey's illness and passing. It was always a joy to meet Harvey at a game or an event--ready to joke and put a smile on our faces. It was obvious how important family was to him. May the loving memories stay close to your hearts forever and comfort you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Rod and Clare Woznick
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Shelley Segale( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I can't tell you how much I liked Harvey, I worked with him for many years and I don't think there was a single day that he wasn't the most pleasant person in the world to around. His cute smile and dimples lit up the room. Ruth I am so sorry for your loss, Harvey will be missed by many many people. May his big smile remain with you and your girls forever and hopefully put a smile on your faces as he did to so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Shelley
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Cheryl and John Nilmeyer( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
May God hold this special angel close to his side... and be careful of the jokes he whispers in his ear! We'll miss him! Love, John and Cheryl
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Joan WeaverJoan Weaver( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I fondly recall getting to know Harvey when he volunteered his time to coach and my daughter was on his team. He was kind and supportive. My sincere condolence to the family.
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Gene and Becky HamnerGene and Becky( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harvey's smiling face will truly be missed at all the local functions he and Ruth have been so involved with. We have fond memories of attending sporting events and social activities with Harvey and Ruth. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
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Steve and Jill Mann( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Harvey was not your typical banker, nor was he a typical human being. Always cheerful and ready to shake one's hand, Harvey had a way of brightening your day. His love of life and community was evident in almost everything he did, which was considerable. He had an enormously kind heart, wonderful spirit, and a personality that enabled him to befriend even the most unfriendly. Harvey exhibited the best of humanity, and he will be sorely missed. Jill and I are grateful for the blessing of his friendship. Steve and Jill Mann
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Edie QuezadaThe Camacho Family( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, Kristi and Kim, We cannot begin to express how deeply saddened we were to hear about your husband and father. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. All our love, Kelly, Christina and Jessica Camacho
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Toni TaboadaToni Taboada( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth and Family, Harvey will be missed on the Board for Crime Stoppers. It was pleasure working with him on the golf tournament the last 5 years. I will always remember him and his happy smiling face. He was very passionate about his fundraising for the communtiy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Bill and Carol Meehleis( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Lodi will be a little less friendly, the room a little less bright as we bid Harvey good-bye, and God speed! What a remarkable gift to give....himself! What a wonderful reminder of Harvey having shared himself as we see the tributes and marvel at the long lines and filled room of mourners. Know that Harvey mattered, and we stand ready to share your world with you....in so many wonderful memories!
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John L Kindsethjohn( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
As a friend going back 30+ years, my prayers and those of my family be with you, Ruth, and your family. Harvey was always the smiling, cheerful and laughing person we all want to be. Keep his memory alive in your family. Prayers from the Kindseths
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colleen kwiatkowskicolleen( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
In the short time I knew Harvey Kessel he showed strength and courage and a wonderfull sense of humor. It was an honor to know him and his loving family.
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Allen Guthmiller( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
I was sorry to here about Harvey. I remember the first time that I met him (at Ron and Mary kay's wedding), and I enjoyed his company from the start. It seems like only yesterday that Ruth and he got married in Leola.
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Eileen Swingle( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
My sincere sympathy to your wonderful family. Eileen (from Pietros)
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Harry and Phyllis SchumacherHarry and Phyllis( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
"Well done thy good and faithful servant"
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Pat Hoggatt( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Ruth, I am so sad to learn of Harvey's illness and passing. I do not check the Lodi paper often, just came to me to do it today. Immediately I started remembering stories Jack told about long ago when you two joined our Bank Family. Jack was proud of you both, he thought you represented the caring service to our customers that he felt was the most important for our community service. Reading these tributes is a wonderful thing. A life well lived in your adopted "Home Town" May the Blessing Be
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Ron and Mary Kay Frey( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
We have many fond remembrances of happy times spent with Ruth and Harv. Our deepest sympathies to Ruth and their daughters and to all who knew and loved Harvey.
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Tracy and JoAnne Burgett Jr.The Bank and Alexander( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Our deepest sympathy to the Kessel Family. His energetic personality will be missed deeply. May GOD bless you.
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Dave and Kathy Sayler( ) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 24, 2020
Our whole family has so many wonderful memories of Harvey. Ruth, Kim, Kristi ? we truly feel your loss and extend our sympathies. I remember when Ruth and Harv came out for the first time and were invited over to my parent?s house on Ham Lane. My Dad, Walter, was so impressed with Harvey. He was not only a really likeable guy, he had played major college football and that held real weight at our house. Harvey?s athletic credentials were forever established. When, nearly twenty years later, we were coaching Kristi?s softball team together, I always held Harvey?s opinion above my own. He knew his stuff. I remember many times coming into the bank after my dad died. My mom had all sorts of business needs that required help. Harvey always helped us. He was so friendly and nice ? I know he went out of his way to get all our problems solved. He was so appreciated. I remember coaching the girls with Harvey. He was a pretty good pitcher and threw batting practice a lot. When the game started, he was more often than not the voice of reason. When calls went against us, or when one of the girls dropped a ball, Harvey was always a gentleman and most often the first one to encourage whomever had committed an oops. He was just a pleasure to be around, and his sense of sportsmanship always spoke volumes about the guy?s sense of fairness and generous nature. We will never forget Harvey, the influence he had on our girls? lives through sports, the influence he had in our community, and simply the wonderful man that he was. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with all of you as you carry on in his honor.
